A few weeks ago, I used Paperless Post to create this draft invitation (above). I then downloaded the image and texted it to a bunch of fellow parents I like but rarely see. I chose not to use Paperless Post’s built-in RSVP function and email reminders, all of which
It is not in my nature to yell “Fuck you!” at strangers. In fact, I typically aim to move around the world, connecting quietly with passersby: a smile here, a lifted stroller there, a wave to say, “After you.” I love a moment of shared humanity that doesn’t require
I started writing here a year ago. At first, I called What Now a “newsletter,” because that’s what most people call missives that drop regularly into readers’ inboxes. But I don’t write to deliver news. That critical work is done by journalists, the professional reporters who do all
This week has not lent itself to sleeping, but I cannot not write, so you are once again getting a list of thoughts that may or may not be connected: 1. Last time I did this, I slandered lists as “the lowest form of human writing,” but one of you—
The fact that Trump pardoned one drug-trafficking strongman (Hernández of Honduras) one month before capturing another (Maduro of Venezuela) has been much discussed. Also much discussed: Venezuela’s oil, Trump’s embrace of the Monroe Doctrine, Trump’s love of made-for-TV displays of dominance, and his need to distract Americans
I didn’t find a lot to laugh about in 2025, but I really enjoyed this moment on New Year’s Eve: My son realizing that he and the gigantic pants favored by his generation would need to get through airport security—without a belt. Fortunately his film education includes
If you know me even a little bit, you won’t be surprised that my ‘holiday card’ is another Venn Diagram. (You may be surprised that it’s not laminated but, sadly, the technology isn’t there yet.) Look, I’ve been as heartened as anyone by the MAGA infighting
Most weeks I publish on Friday mornings, so this post is early. But coming three full days after 15 people were gunned down while celebrating the first night of Hanukkah, this post is also late. On the subject of Israel and Gaza, I’ve always put myself on a “read
At the DRC (Dispute Resolution Center) where I now work, all mediations are confidential and privileged. However, we’re allowed to use anonymized anecdotes for educational purposes. In that spirit—but also because I’m still laughing (ruefully) about it—I’ll share this: in a session a few days
A computer desktop littered with files can become more pleasing to the eye with one click: Snap to Grid. The ideas in those files might be half-baked at best, but the files themselves are suddenly tidy. It’s as though there’s a plan. When Kamala Harris chose Tim Walz
When I shared in last week’s post that the past two years have been difficult—that I’ve struggled to find my lane—I got what I seek most from writing: real connection. Thank you for your comments and emails. I look forward to continuing those conversations, both here
When I stepped back from running my company nearly two years ago, I had three good business reasons: risk management, talent retention, and strategic renewal. I also made one huge mistake: I had no real plan for myself. I didn’t consider myself retired. I’m an “un-exited business owner,